Army

SGT Juan Carlos Baldeosingh, National Guard

“Juan Carlos Baldeosingh was my father. He served with courage and honor, and he gave his life while serving in Iraq. Everyone who knew him always says the same thing: he was funny, full of life, and could make anyone laugh. But beyond the laughter, what truly defined him was his deep love for his family. He was a devoted father, and we carry his memory with pride and love every day. His sacrifice reminds us of the strength and heart he brought not only to his service but to our home. Everything I do is in honor of him!”

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MAJ Fernando C Lavana, ARMY

“Fernando was the most loving, kind, and competent person who had a huge heart - for God, his family, especially for his children, and for his fellow soldiers. He loved serving in the military and being able to walk alongside with others in service. He was killed in a line of duty accident on 7 FEB 2019. He is deeply missed.”

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SFC Ommy Irizarry, ARMY

“SFC Ommy Irizarry brought joy and abundant energy to everything he undertook, and did so with passion and commitment. He was a proud soldier in the United States Army, a loving husband and a devoted father. Without hesitation, he was constantly helping those in need and using his skills wherever he saw an opportunity. He lived his life full of love, generosity, compassion and laughter. A man with endless kindness and a positive attitude, SFC Ommy Irizarry left a legacy of love, loyalty, dignity, courage and brotherhood. His life stands as a lasting example of how to live fully, with purpose, honor and love.”

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CW2 Joshua Scott, Army

”CW2 Joshua Michael Scott is a hero. On May 26, 2005 Josh was killed in action when his OH-58 Kiowa Warrior helicopter came under attack from small-arms fire and crashed in Buhriz, Iraq. Josh’s life in the military embodies a commitment to a greater purpose that goes beyond personal gain. He chose a path that prioritized the well-being and safety of others. His willingness to put the needs of his country and fellow citizens above his own is a testament to his exceptional character and sense of duty. It is this commitment to something larger than oneself that distinguishes him and makes him a true hero. From time spent away from loved ones to the physical and emotional tolls of the work, men and women in the service have endured hardships that many cannot fathom. Despite these challenges, Josh exhibited remarkable resilience, pushing through adversity and demonstrating unwavering confidence. His ability to remain steadfast in the face of difficulties is a testament to his inner strength and determination. However, my fathers heroism goes beyond his tremendous sacrifice. My dad was the type of man to stop everything in order to go help whomever he could. When someone was stuck on the side of the road, he would be the first one there trying to help. When someone’s American flag became worn and torn he would go and replace it with a new one. His willingness to help followed him up until the very end, as he sacrificed it all for me, you, and his country. I hope that you take Joshua Michael Scott’s legacy with you and help to keep him alive in our spirits and souls. Next time you see someone in need please go help. Hold open a door, spare a dollar or two for the homeless, smile at people. A simple act can change a life and if I have learned anything from my father’s life, it's to not leave this world without leaving a positive impact on as many people as possible.”


“My father was KIA in Buhritz, Iraq shortly after I was born while flying a Kiowa with the 17th cavalry.”

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SFC Cody Peterson, ARMY

“Cody was a father, husband, son and brother who was full of life and loved serving his country. He was quick to make a joke, and always there for his friends when they needed him. Unfortunately, Cody took his own life 12/2021 and is missed everyday.”


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PFC John Johnson, ARMY

“Corey (John went by his middle name) was the love of my life. The very best father in the world. He was so funny. We miss him so much.”

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SGT Joshua Strickland, ARMY

“SGT Joshua Strickland, 23, of Woodstock, Ga., assigned to 1st Battalion, 1st Special Forces Group, Joint Base Lewis-McChord, Wash.; died Sept. 21 at Forward Operating Base Shank of wounds suffered when enemy forces attacked his unit with small arms fire while conducting range training in Gardez, Paktia Province, Afghanistan.”


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SSG Daniel A. Quintana, ARMY

“Daniel was a wonderful father, he just didn't have the opportunity to meet Adriana as he died 3 months before she was born.”

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CW4 Terry Geer, Army

“Terry served as a pilot in the 160th SOAR. He had completed 21 years of service when he passed. As devoted as he was to his unit he was more a more devoted father and husband.”

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SFC Dennis Meno Urdaneta, Army

“Dennis served 19 years in the United States Army. His leadership, mentorship, commitment, and integrity will forever be remembered by his Army unit, battalion, and Soldiers. His dedication and devotion to the United States Army were well-recognized and will be missed. Dennis truly was a man of compassion and great honor. His genuine and bubbly personality, warm and friendly smile, humility, kindness, strong family ties, and unending support were embraced with so much love by his family, friends, and colleagues.”

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CPT Stephen John Valent, ARMY

I am very grateful and honored to be a gold star spouse. The privilege and honor is still with me to this very day. We have a beautiful daughter, son-in-law and three beautiful grandchildren. Stephen would be very proud.

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SPC Matthew Jarrod Kocher, ARMY

“Matthew was more than just an honorable man; he was the kind of person whose kindness touched everyone he met. He was the one who would give you the shirt off his back, or stop whatever he was doing to help a soldier get a ride on post. His heart was wide open, always ready to welcome a friend in need, no matter the hour. He wasn’t just a good friend or a father; he was the glue that held us together. His love and devotion were boundless, and he always made sure to fill our lives with memories we’d cherish forever. Together, we explored the world, adventuring through Europe, laughing, and creating moments that now feel like treasures. Every single day without him feels like a piece of us is missing. But in his absence, we are more determined than ever to carry his name forward, to honor his legacy with the same love and generosity he showed us. Until we meet again, Matthew, we hold you in our hearts.”

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2LT Benjamin Colgan, Army

“My dad was a devoted husband, dad, world class soldier and friend to all. Those who knew him could attest to his generous spirit and ever present smile. His commanding officer described him as "absolutely fearless" and 'the bravest most decent and selfless man" he's ever known.”

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SGT Buddy Hughie, Army

“Buddy loved life, loved his son, and loved the Army. He lives on in his son Cooper who strives to be a doctor and save people in the way his father did.”

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